Neaven William Rathbone

2007 - 2007
LocationWidnes
Age0
Cause of DeathNot Listed?
Date of Birth01/06/2007
Date of Death01/06/2007
Visitors3,704 since 24/09/2007
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i was having identical twins i found out 2 days before new years eve that one twin would die after
birth. i was offered all the selective reduction procedures but i knew i couldnt do that. i know
anencephaly is not compatible with life but i loved both my boys and still do. we decided to carry
to term and all the time pregnant we had 2 plan the funeral i even picked the hymns and designed the
mass cards it was so sad picking a coffin and a cot, but i wanted to do it before neaven was born so
i could enjoy whatever time i had and not have to worry about my hubby organising it on his own.
he was born first twin at 1 36 am and died at 4 45 am on the 1st june 2007 . lived for a wonderful 3
and a half hours. he had black hair and weighed 3 lb 2 oz.he cried once and he looked at me shortly
after that he slipped into a coma and developed apnoea. until he passed he was christened at 3.30
and he went peacefully something which im very grateful for.
he leaves behind his twin william, born 20 mins later, his big brother bobby 3 sister leahrose 2 and
lots of cousins, aunts uncles, friends and nan. we played twinkle twinkle at his funeral which
really stands out for me it was lovely, we tell his brothers, sister and cousins that hes a little
star and to me he is.
he died of anencephaly which is an open neural tube defect. this happens in the 3rd week of
pregnancy so before you know really. this can be avoided with the use of folic acid, so please make
sure you take it.
we miss him and wish we could have got to know him. he might not have lived long but he lives with
us forever.
WILLIAM NEAVENS TWIN HAS DIED AGED 19 MONTHS ON THE 28TH OF DECEMBER 08.

SITTING BACK WE WONDER WHY,
WHY OUR SON YOU HAD TO DIE,
THINGS WERE PERFECT AT THE START,
WE LOVED OUR BABIES FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART,
TWINS, WE WERE TOLD, WE WERE SO GLAD,
WE DIDN`T REALISE, SOON WE`D BE SAD,
THEN OUR WORLD WAS TORN APART,
IT FELT OUR JOY WAS RIPPED FROM OUR HEART,
YOU WOULDN`T MAKE IT WE WERE TOLD,
BUT TO US YOUR SHORT LIFE WAS LIKE GLEAMING GOLD,
YOUR BROTHER WAS FINE, BUT ALAS YOU WERE NOT,
NOW I SIT AND CRY AT YOUR EMPTY COT,
YOUR LIFE WILL LIVE ON IN THE GUISE OF YOUR BROTHER,
BUT MY DEAREST SON THEIR WILL BE NO OTHER,
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SPECIAL AND WE`LL NEVER FORGET,
OUR DARLING SON, WHO WE ONCE MET,
SO GOD LOOK AFTER OUR DARLING NEAVEN,
UNTIL WE ALL MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN.


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XXXX Happy Angelday Sweetheart XXXX

Joanne Mitchell (GTS Friend) June 1, 2009

Happy 2nd Birthday!!!

Hope you and William have a great 2nd birthday together.
Can't believe its been 2 years....
Think about you both everyday and miss you both loads...
hugs and kisses on your special day

Nicky,Richard,Annabelle and Erin xx

Nicola Newies (Family Friend) June 1, 2009

happy birthday

have a great 2nd birthday in the clouds miss you and love you my little soldiers xxxxxxx

Anna (Mummy) June 1, 2009

CHARITY NIGHT

we're organising a charity night in memory of our boys and, all of our lost little children. monies can be donated directly to sands or the sand rose project, or if u know me and live near me come to the charity on the 1st june got all sorts organised and a magazine is taking a story from me, for the twins
xx

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9O8WuZaBbnw
montage for my lil boys

Anna (Mummy) May 11, 2009

♥ WITH LOVE AT EASTER. ♥
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════║══║ AN EASTER BLESSING
═╔══╝══╚══╗ FOR A SPECIAL ANGEL.
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Memories of Easter past
Keep them in your heart
Know that I am at my best
With wings that never part
Standing right beside you
With wings that span so wide
Covering you with so much love
You're beauty at my side
Every prayer you whisper
Comes with special glow
Know that I am with you
Everywhere you go
Especially now at Easter
With special golden wings
I'm smiling down on loved ones
My soul forever sings
I'll send a special Halo
To shine above you all
With peace and love my memory
My memory covers you with shawl. ♥

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☆ LOVE TO YOU ☆
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Love mckenzie's mummy xxxx

Kelly Morgan (GTS Friend) April 12, 2009

i saw this and thought of ste

A Man In Grief

xx

It must be difficult
To be a man in grief
Since 'men dont cry' and 'men are strong'
No tears can bring relief.

It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test
and field calls and visitors
So she can get some rest.

They always ask if shes doing alright
and what shes going through
But seldom take his hand and ask
'My friend, but how are you?'
He hears her crying in the night
and thinks his heart will break
He dries her tears and comforts her,
But stays strong for her sake.

It must be very difficult to start each day anew
and try to be brave...
...He lost his baby too.

Anna (Mummy) February 1, 2009

Sweet boy

You darling wee man, playing with your brother now, with the whole of heaven as your playground. Much love to your family xx

Erin Frisby January 23, 2009

Angels kiss xx

for mummy and daddy

AN ANGELA KISS XX
We never stop to measure
Anything we might just miss
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angels Kiss
A Kiss thats sent from Heaven
A Kiss from up above
A Kiss thats very special
From someone that you love
For in your pain and sorrow
A Kiss will help you through
This Kiss is very private
For its meant for only you
So when are hearts are heavy
And filled with tears and pain
And no-one can console you
Remember once again
About the ones you grieve for
Because you sadly miss
And that gentle breeze you took for granted
Was just......an Angels Kiss x

Shirleyann Blurton January 12, 2009

Angels

"Angels"

When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low
When there is no one here to talk to
And no where I really want to go
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know my Angels are there
Even though we are many miles apart
A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all
Whenever I need my Angels near
All I have to do is call
An Angel's love is always true
On that you can always depend
They will always stand behind you
And will always be your friend

Neaven & William precious Angels

Shirleyann Blurton January 3, 2009

to our little star

you are missed so much nevean you where taken away so soon life is so unfair. we know that william is now with you watch over your family they miss you so much. you are always in our hearts and our thoughts good night godbless.

all our love lilian marc and chloe x x x

Lilian Steadman (Family Friend) December 31, 2008
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