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| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 01/06/2007 |
| Date of Death | 01/06/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,706 since 24/09/2007 |
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i was having identical twins i found out 2 days before new years eve that one twin would die after
birth. i was offered all the selective reduction procedures but i knew i couldnt do that. i know
anencephaly is not compatible with life but i loved both my boys and still do. we decided to carry
to term and all the time pregnant we had 2 plan the funeral i even picked the hymns and designed the
mass cards it was so sad picking a coffin and a cot, but i wanted to do it before neaven was born so
i could enjoy whatever time i had and not have to worry about my hubby organising it on his own.
he was born first twin at 1 36 am and died at 4 45 am on the 1st june 2007 . lived for a wonderful 3
and a half hours. he had black hair and weighed 3 lb 2 oz.he cried once and he looked at me shortly
after that he slipped into a coma and developed apnoea. until he passed he was christened at 3.30
and he went peacefully something which im very grateful for.
he leaves behind his twin william, born 20 mins later, his big brother bobby 3 sister leahrose 2 and
lots of cousins, aunts uncles, friends and nan. we played twinkle twinkle at his funeral which
really stands out for me it was lovely, we tell his brothers, sister and cousins that hes a little
star and to me he is.
he died of anencephaly which is an open neural tube defect. this happens in the 3rd week of
pregnancy so before you know really. this can be avoided with the use of folic acid, so please make
sure you take it.
we miss him and wish we could have got to know him. he might not have lived long but he lives with
us forever.
WILLIAM NEAVENS TWIN HAS DIED AGED 19 MONTHS ON THE 28TH OF DECEMBER 08.
SITTING BACK WE WONDER WHY,
WHY OUR SON YOU HAD TO DIE,
THINGS WERE PERFECT AT THE START,
WE LOVED OUR BABIES FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART,
TWINS, WE WERE TOLD, WE WERE SO GLAD,
WE DIDN`T REALISE, SOON WE`D BE SAD,
THEN OUR WORLD WAS TORN APART,
IT FELT OUR JOY WAS RIPPED FROM OUR HEART,
YOU WOULDN`T MAKE IT WE WERE TOLD,
BUT TO US YOUR SHORT LIFE WAS LIKE GLEAMING GOLD,
YOUR BROTHER WAS FINE, BUT ALAS YOU WERE NOT,
NOW I SIT AND CRY AT YOUR EMPTY COT,
YOUR LIFE WILL LIVE ON IN THE GUISE OF YOUR BROTHER,
BUT MY DEAREST SON THEIR WILL BE NO OTHER,
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE SPECIAL AND WE`LL NEVER FORGET,
OUR DARLING SON, WHO WE ONCE MET,
SO GOD LOOK AFTER OUR DARLING NEAVEN,
UNTIL WE ALL MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN.
My Wish ♥ღ♥
When you are lonely,
I wish you love.
When you are down,
I wish you joy.
When you are troubled,
I wish you peace.
When things are complicated,
I wish you simple beauty.
When things are chaotic,
I wish you inner silence.
When things are empty,
I wish you hope.
When you need your Angel,
I wish you faith...to know they are with you...always.
Twinkle, twinkle little Angel x
Twinkle, twinkle, little star,
How I wonder what you are!
Up above the world so high,
Like a diamond in the sky!
When the blazing sun is gone,
When He nothing shines upon,
Then you show your little light,
Twinkle, twinkle, all the night.
Then the traveler in the dark,
Thanks you for your tiny spark,
He could not see which way to go,
If you did not twinkle so.
In the dark blue sky you keep,
And often through my curtains peep,
For you never shut your eyes,
Till the sun is in the sky.
As your bright and tiny spark,
Lights the traveller in the dark,—
Though I now know what you are,
You're my Angel, little star.
Love Deb xx
If i could catch a rainbow.
If I could catch a rainbow
I would do it just for you
and share with you its beauty
On the days you're feeling blue.
If I could build a mountain
You could call your very own;
A place to find serenity,
A place to be alone.
If I could take your troubles
I would toss them in the sea,
But all these things I'm finding
are impossible for me.
I cannot build a mountain
Or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know best,
A friend who's always there.
For a very special Angel...
When we have no one to turn to
And are feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere we want to go,
We search deep within ourselves
It is the love inside our hearts
That lets us know our Angel's there
Even though we are miles apart.
A smile then appears upon our face
And the sun begins to shine.
We hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that we are alone
But we are never by ourselves at all.
Whenever we need our Angel near
All we have to do is call.
An Angel's love is always true
On that you can depend.
They will always stand beside you
And will always be your friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
Our Angel sees us through
They smile when we are happy,
And will cry when we are blue..
While we are apart ♥ღ♥
Distance may separate us
But my heart will never let you go,
For I carry a part of you with me always.
It keeps me going through the day.
It brings a smile to my face
and tears to my eyes.
It is a part of my dreams that I live for and cherish.
That part is my wish, my only one,
To see you again soon.
I know that wish will someday come true.
But for now, I will hold in my heart
The memory of you
And never let you go.
For a special little Angel... x
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I am so sorry about your beautiful baby neaven.My baby luca is due in january and is also suffering from anencephaly.I found out at 14 weeks about luca and was also told we had a twin baby who had died early on at 6 weeks.Nothing can descibe the heartbreak at knowing you are carrying a baby who wont survive.We have chosen to carry our son to term but i dont know how our family will cope when we lose him.My best wishes to your family and neaven will always live on through william
so sorry for your loss
i was so sad to see your little boy,and i wanted you to know that i am thinking about you and your family,my daughter lost 3babies,not full term,but never the less still her babies,i know the pain my little girl felt so im giving you my love from the bottom of my heart,always know that your little boy is by your side and in your heart always,he grew inside you and nothing will take the love you have for him away,god bless to you all,xx
Neaven, you have a lot of friends with you who had the same problem you had, don't let any of them lead you astray (there are a few mischief makers up there).
Your mummy has a lot of friends all over the world who know her pain, we're here for her and your daddy.
God Bless you Neaven, you've touched so many hearts
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
People say they’re sorry,
And they mean it from the heart,
But to understand your heartache,
They couldn’t even start,
To have a loss like you have had,
Is too much to understand,
We see it and we feel for you,
But it’s only secondhand,
You’re the ones who are suffering,
And we’re the ones who care,
But if there’s anything we can do,
Call us, we’ll be there.
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